Thursday, February 18, 2010

Blogging is not a Profession, but a Passion

Last night my better half complain about me blogging. She said she doesn't like me blogging! Unlike during the previous complain sessions, she didn't give any reason this time around. But I know she doesn't like it because it is taking too much of my time away from the family and her. I knew she is right. But..........

it is difficult to stop doing something that you are passionate of huhuhu

Any suggestion?

54 comments:

  1. sib baik suka berblog jer

    kalau suka FaceBook , lagi haru ...


    jangan tinggal terus
    just slow down ....

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  2. make her like it .. by hook or by crook!

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  3. sungguh mencabar memblog kalau ada famili, nasib baik haku tinggal berjauhan,

    salamm,

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  5. errrrr.... errr.... speaking london???
    errrr ... tak paham... ;P


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    nak belek kamus dulu eh...

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  6. i used to have d same issue w my significant other, but then i started involving him in my n3s, dragging him along meeting my blogger friends ..he understood better. Its just that u need to make sure that u cut down your blogging hours, especially when she is around, make her understand that blogging is ur passion but how passionate blogging is to you, it wont take away ur attention away from her..auwwww..

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  7. hehehe... YB, dia risau tu, aku trsangat fhm hati dia. elok la kasi kureng sikit.... tp aku rasa ko dh ketagihan ni YB, ngeeee

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  8. mmmmm... mmmmmm...

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    mmmmmm.... ok....

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    sian mak adam...


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    mmmmm....

    apa kata mak adam pun berblog gak... mmm... agaknya ko suka tak??

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    mmmmmm... ;D

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  9. buat 2 minggu sekali pun ok bang. pastu bikin n3 pendek2 jer. aku tgh nak cuba nih. agak berjaya mendekati family tak mcm dulu asik bekepit dgn pc.

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  10. teringat soklan anak dara YB kat saya hari tu...

    slow down aje mcm saya sekarang..

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  11. dulu aku cakap dengan my other half macam tu jugak. berenti lah berblog tu.. takde paedahnya. Lepas tu dia suggest aku bukak blog pulak. Dia dah slow down aku pulak yang addicted. Camno?

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  12. sebab nk bahagi masa lah blog saya kerap sepi je..hehe

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  13. pakzahan juga punya akaun blog...dan selalu memantau blog isterinya....

    Pesan dia....jaga etika dan moral dalam berblog....

    Saya ikut kata-kata dia....dan mula bersikap selektif....biarlah orang tak mau kunjungi blog saya pun, tak rugi apa-apa.

    Boleh bergurau bersenda....tapi jaga batas, kerana perasaan pasangan kita lebih penting....

    Maaf kalau saya berlebih-lebih memberi komen...ikhlas...

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  14. jgn kerana blog rumahtangga kacau bilau :P

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  15. susah juga ni, kena ada timetable

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  16. errr kan dah pakai penapis...
    tak approve jugek ker hehehe

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  17. boleh je blogging setiap hari... Tapi jangan lama-lama mengadap... sejam sekali, tiga kali sehari, kira oklah tu...

    biar kerap, jangan lama. kira macam exercise jugak... :D :D

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  18. selagi tiang pemancar masih gagah berdiri selagi tu la kut blog tak tutup.

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  19. inilah masalah yg timbul jika salah sorang je yg jadik blogger.kalu dua² blogger lain citer plak. aku mmg dah lama hadapi masalah ni. cara aku senang saje, aku berblog bila wife aku takde, pi keje atau outstation. bila dia ade,aku kena tinggalkan dunia online, fokus pada famili. Selamat berjaya!

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  20. pB,
    itulah sebab saya tak gunakan FB tu walaupun dah register. Ramai jugak kawan2 minta saya add kan nama mereka ke fb saya.

    Nanti saya cuba slow down sikit. Lepas ni kalau saya jarang ke blog rakan2 blogger kalian tahulah kenapa huhuhu

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  21. al-lavendari,
    I am a nice guy. I don't think I have the capability to be a crook.

    Can you kindly teach me how to use the hook on her? Please bang.

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  22. tunbegia,
    mmg mencabar. Isteri mana yg tak bengang kalau suami asyik sibuk depan pc. Dah lah bidang tugas saya ni banyak menggunakan pc spt mengira tender, membuat surat, membuat laporan. Tambah pula bila blogging. Berbelas jam depan pc huhuhu

    Sungguh beruntung awak (buat masa ni lah)

    Wsalam.

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  23. ~O~,
    dah bagi tapi nak kena lebihkan lagi utk dia dan keluarga. Mungkin dalam 8 jam jugak.

    Kerja 8 - 10 jam. Tinggallah 6-8 jam utk tidur, solat, makan dll termasuklah blogging. Aku kena blogging time makan atau time tidur lah kot ngeh3x

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  24. kts,
    maaflah tiba2 aku terasa nak buat n3 dlm BI. Nasib aku tak tulis dlm bahasa Jerman. Kalau tak ko kenalah mintak tolong ckLah translate kan.

    pssst - waj pergi TI tak ajak aku ya huhuhu

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  25. tchersally,
    thanks for your lengthy explanation and suggestion. However, emak Adam and Ismail are two different character. She hardly read my blog (except occasionally) and she prefers not to expose her story to others in my n3. Maybe she has got more than enough exposure over the years.

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  26. Teja,
    aku percaya ko faham hati dia kerana kampung korang pun sebelah menyebelah aje. Sehati sejawalah katakan hehehe

    Aku bukanlah ketagih tapi aku sayangkan rakan2 blogger ngeee

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  27. citahrudin,
    mcm nilah lebih kurangnya huhuhu

    kts lagi,
    mmmmmmm

    mmmmmmm aku ingat ko tak nak balik makan tadi

    Sedangkan aku blogging pun dia dah bising ini pulak nak suruh dia blogging? Ko datang rumah aku cakap macam tu kat dia boleh tak? Ko pun dah lama tak datang sini ahaks

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  28. tijah,
    lepas ni kalau aku senyap dari alam maya ni korang jgn rindu kat aku tau. Kalau ko rindu ko roger aje aku ni. You know how to get me ahaks.

    psst - Jan hari tu ko jarang buat n3. Feb ni dah mula kerap. Mac nanti aku rasa hari2 balik mcm dulu wakaka

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  29. kuina,
    soalan yg mana satu tu?

    lepas ni kena ikut jejak langkah awak lah nampaknya.


    kakpah,
    nak tergelak den dengar pengakuan jujur kakpah ni!

    Tapi saya yakin emak adam tak akan terjebak ke arena blogging ni.

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  30. ko sygkan rakan2 blog? tntu ko syg aku jugak... kan.. kan.. kan?

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  31. n@m@n,
    cinta perlukan pengorbanan. Biarlah blog sepi dari isteri terasa sepi
    Saya bercakap bagi pihak diri sendiri huhuhu

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  32. ckLah,
    terlebih dulu saya nak ucapkan terima kasih di atas pandangan dan peringatan ikhlas dari awak tu.

    Saya akan jadikannya panduan sekiranya saya masih terus wujud di alam blog

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  33. juliet,
    insyaAllah taklah sampai mcm tu.

    Mak Su,
    timetable saya dah penuh. Ini pun curi2 time kerja (tengah kira tender) utk balas komen dan pandangan kawan2.

    Terima kasih kepada semua yg sudi memberi pendapat dan cadangan.

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  34. NL,
    Penapis tu lain fungsinya.

    Ini soal tumpuan dan memberi masa kpd keluarga vs blogging.

    syah,
    mak ai sampai 3 jam sehari? Lagilah dia bising. Takkan nak bawa pc pergi surau masa solat kot hehehe

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  35. ONE ZABA,
    tiang pemancar tu mmg gagah berdiri di belakang surau tapi pemancarnya belum dipasang lagi sampai hari ini. Nak kena stoplah tu ya? hehehe

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  36. Penyuk,
    betul kata ko tu sbb ko bercakap dari pengalaman. Masalah aku, emak Adam sentiasa di rumah dan opis aku pun di rumah. Aku jarang ke opis aku di Rawang tu kecuali bila ada perlu aje. Selebihnya aku meeting di luar. Takkan nak blogging masa tu? huhuhu

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  37. Teja,
    aku ni kan seorg yg penyayang. Termasuklah ko walaupun kita tak pernah jumpa sbb ko kata ko takut aura aku ahaks

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  38. I can't help you coz makngahnya has been very supportive to my blog all along. She even appointed herself as a consultant ! may be one day you should bring your wife to meet makngahnya .. ( maafkan BI saya.. dah berkarat)

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  39. Salam YB.....

    I want to stop blogging as well.
    SOON........

    :)

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  40. YB...saya agreed dgn pB, pelan-pelan maa..

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  41. al-lavendari,
    thanks for that. In fact I have brought her to meet up some of my blogger friends. Some even came to our house and she treats them well. You can ask people like Akmal, Syah Shah and Jard.

    Notwithstanding this, she just could stand watching me spending time in front of my pc blogging huhuhu

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  42. Zyma,
    wsalam.

    You too? jgnlah berhenti. Ini bukan kes you jump I jump kan? ngeeee

    nahmy,
    hanya masa yg akan menentukan.....

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  43. ahaaa, YB dh mula tuka topik.... aku fhm nape, hehe

    mornen YB, bekpes ape pg ni?? [aku brayat skema] ekeke...

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  44. Hihihihi......U jump, I jump??
    Owhhh,NO!

    Just to slow down my blogging xtvt. I`ve planned to learn Mandarin (Advanced Class)...
    I ain`t gonna to waste my time...
    I`ve to point my concentration on my biz and family.....and extra more knowledge.

    :)

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  45. Notwithstanding this, she just could stand watching me spending time in front of my pc blogging huhuhu

    so what's the problem ?

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  46. Teja,
    ko ni semua ko kata faham. Entah ya entah tidak hehehe

    emak adam tengah buat sarapan tu. Sempatlah blogging kejap kah kah kah

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  47. Zyma,
    you better don't jump if you don't know how to swim hahaha

    Eloklah belajar B Mandarin yg advance. Boleh kembangkan bisnes ko tu sbb ko kata ko nak masuki pasaran bukan Melayu lepas ni kan? Aku doakan ko berjaya.

    Yup. You are right. Focus your time and effort for your business and family. You will never go wrong. Don't forget your amal too.

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  48. al-lavendari,
    ceit menyampahlah abg. Nantilah kalau tiba2 emak adam jadi mcm makngah tu. Saya buat n3 khas tentang tu nak tayang kat abg kah kah kah

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  49. 3 jam sehari bukan suruh direct, agih-agihkanlaa 3 jam tu untuk sehari... YB nih pongss...

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  50. syah,
    mmglah bukan direct tapi mana nak cari 3 jam dlm sehari kalau tak saya korbankan dari xtvt lain. Itu yg emak Adam bising tu sbb sebahagian dari masa yg jadi korban ialah masa utk bersama keluarga huhuhu

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  51. saya tak suruh sampai 3 jam... saya buat contoh je tuuuuu~~~

    YB, jangan laa lurus sangat... iskkk... Saya lak yang pening... hahahahahahah :P :P :P

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  52. syah,
    tak usahlah pening2. Sian pulak saya mendengarnya.

    Tapi hari ni rasanya dah lebih 3 jam dari pagi tadi sbb nak kerja ramai org masih cuti. Boleh curi lebih dari waktu kerja hehehe

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